Sex can now be gotten cheaply without sweat or bargain. The media is promoting the use of condom in place of abstinence, youths are celebrating immorality instead of celibacy and teenagers are fast becoming exposed to this menace. The movie, internet, music, celebrities and some reality TV shows are encouraging it. May God save this generation!
How can you remain a virgin or sexually pure? Is it still possible to find virgins or people who have chosen to be celibate until marriage? Yes! But, relying on God's grace isn't enough; you must play your part by doing the following:
* Stay clear of places that can turn you on sexually
Places like night club, organized beach parties where there is nobody to guide you are areas where immorality is often celebrated at its peak. It's a 'no go' area if you want to retain your morals and wouldn't want to corrupt your mind. It is good to know yourself than to be influenced. Although you may not see anything wrong in it but one or more immoral exposure is enough to kick start your passion for such act.
*Do not read romance novel or watch pornographic items
Why should you take fire in your bosom when you know that it will burn you? Pornographic items will arouse sexual passion in you. It will only make you hungry for a bite you aren't prepared to take. You need not to start a fire you cannot put off.
*Do not have an undefined relationship where sex, kissing or caressing could be entertained.
Many people wouldn't have met their waterloo if they hadn't gone into a relationship. It isn't a must to be in a relationship. A relationship where there are no good things to be done other than sexual plays will surely yield no good fruit.
The expression of love through these means is meant for married couples and not for singles.
*Watch the kind of friends you keep
A sheep that walks with a dog will likely eat its faeces. Your friends can influence you if you lack the strong will to resist their pressure.
You stand the chances of becoming wise by walking with wise friends and the same happens when you walk with sexually loose ones.
*Don't be curious or be in haste to know what sex feels like
Curiosity kills the cat. Many people are curious to know how some things work or feel like. Sadly enough, they found themselves trapped in it and became addicts.
Don't be curious to know how it feels to have sex. It is a wonderful experience when you do it with someone who loves you rather than with someone who is ravished with your body alone.
Marital sex comes with no consequences but not so with premarital and extramarital sex.
*Fear God
The fear of God is to hate evil. Engaging in activities that will pollute you is evil in God's sight.
Having the fear of God is living with the consciousness of the existence of God. Joseph did and he saved his future from destruction.
The fear of Godhas nothing to do with your religion. There are many religious inclined people who do not fear God. When you fear God, it keeps you away from any act of immorality because you wouldn't want to sin against Him.
*Have a purpose in life and pursue it
When you are busy doing something productive with your life and future, you will not be idle or feel lonely to want sex.
Idleness is a fertile ground for curiosity and negative influence.
Above all, be born again. You cannot do all of the above in your own strength. He that is born of God will keep himself from sin and the evil one, and would not be defiled.
Let the whole world turn into Sodom and Gomorrah, there will still be people whom God can vouch for, who will not defile themselves with the craze and rush for sex.
Virginity/celibacy is not a lack of opportunity; it is a sign of dignity. Be proud to have it and let NOBODY talk you out of it.
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